| On a flight from Los Angeles to New York, Oliver (Kutcher) and Emily (Peet) make a connection, only to decide that they are poorly suited to be together. Over the next seven years, however, they are reunited time and time again, they go from being acquaintances to close friends to ... lovers? [TRAILER]
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SNYDER'S REVIEW
I like the title of the film, because I like the way the movie itself skews the accepted view of the term “love.”
In the movies, love has come to mean something far different than it means in real life. In the cinema, people are attracted to others in a certain way, converse in a certain way, court in a certain way, and express their feelings in a certain way. Like so many genres today, to encounter a romance is to already know where its destination lies.
And there is a certain pleasure to this. When a film palys out exactly as you expect, and you feel smarter than the world you’re observing, it’s as if you’re a mini God, residing over your own universe.
What a delight it is then to realize, before a film’s credits are even over, that the story has already jumped beyond the avenue of the expected or the predictable.
Most romances build to that fateful kiss, when the woman swoons and the man leans down – when that magic spark lifts both up to a higher plane. But in “A Lot Like Love,” it does not take 120 minutes to get there, but merely 120 seconds.
Oliver (Ashton Kutcher) and Emily (Amanda Peet) meet through random sex.
Now take a deep breath. It’s going to be okay. (Though parents should be aware: Somehow this film has been rated PG-13, which I should strongly caution you to take as a serious PG-13, verging on R)
For some reason, few romances, and almost no romantic comedies, really deal with sex. It seems these works would have us believe that the euphoria stops at the kiss, the next step is the wedding and children only arrive via stork.
But not in “A Lot Like Love.” They meet thanks to sex, and only over the course of a day in New York City do they realize they have something to talk about. The film then plays out over the course of six years where, much like “When Harry Met Sally,” they continue to flow in and out of each other’s lives.
Sometimes it’s because they have just been dumped. Other times it is because they are lonely. In still other episodes, they legitimately think of the person fondly and seek them out.
Or maybe their attraction is based on the fact that, like so few films, they believably have a wonderful time together. They seem to bring out the best in each other, and exhibit the same sort of giddy, immature euphoria that I associate with real people who are in love in the real world.
This movie is about three things: Not only their feelings for each other, but a larger examination of how we change with the passing years and finally how our perspective on love changes as well. Random sex soon begets hilarious road trips, then serious dinner conversations, parties and, after the buzz of something new fades, the quiet admissions of real feelings.
Youth is a fun time of discovery and adventure. I still remember the day, much like Oliver in “A Lot Like Love,” when I realized that happiness is not a perpetual state of mind – that my happiness is only thanks to a select few people. And as both Oliver and Emily get older, they start taking each other for granted less and less.
While the ending is a bit more uncertain than we’re used to from films of this ilk, it still goes too far in trying to build up the suspense this film really doesn’t need. But prior to this flaw, the film has paid its dues in making us care about these characters and creating a world that feels, dare I say, somewhat honest.
Much criticized by me and others, this is the best defense yet of Ashton Kutcher’s acting abilities, as he must navigate between scenes of calm, insanity, giddiness and pain. Amanda Peet continues quite an impressive 2005 streak. Also starring in Woody Allen’s “Melinda and Melinda,” where she was without question the most skillful performer and the only reason for attending, she proves in both films that her vast acting range is her biggest asset.
One cannot discuss this film without also confronting its genre, for that is precisely why “A Lot Like Love” is such a welcome production.
Most romances are about two to five people, an arbitrary conflict, and then a predictable resolution. “Love,” to the contrary, is only about two unique people, who change and grow over the years, gradually discovering a new perspective. Their conflict is not melodrama but time, and their resolution is not a quick fix but a personal reinvention.
No, this is not like most movie romances. But for my money, it’s a lot like this thing called reality.
   
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